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As a survivor of sexual abuse and domestic violence, and as someone who is a wounded healer who has devoted herself to service to other survivors, I welcome your acknowledgement of the gaslighting, and psychological warfare deliberately enacted by the men in the Oval Office who have no credibility as true leaders. Women are a mighty force. We will not allow this ruthlessness to shape the lives of our children. I have served women long enough to have complete confidence in this. I stand with Ukraine.

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I've been saying for a few years that Trump followers are in a trauma bond with him. What we saw the other day was absolutely another example of him being abusive. If you've experienced it, you can't not see it. I felt it in my whole body as I was watching the it. I looked at Zelensky's eyes and knew exactly how he was feeling. Its disgusting and terrifying that this is who speaks for us on the world stage. Abuse never ends in happily ever after.

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I stand with peace and diplomacy.

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Lack of human compassion is so unbelievable

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Thank you for seeing us. I posted this to my Notes on March 2nd: I just watched a video of Zelensky’s meeting at the White House and got PTSD from how similar the Americans were to former friends and lovers. They started out pleasant and then moved to attack. I’m not sure if it was planned but I remember being in that hot seat with anything I said being weaponized against me. Living on tiptoes is exhausting and demoralizing.

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Thank you so much for writing this, Starhawk. I wholeheartedly agree. I believe many of us may be experiencing vicarious trauma from his hourly tantrums. We must continue to stand up to this unrelenting bully

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Thank you for this! I have “Dreaming The Dark” on my bookshelves somewhere. You introduced me to the sacredness of sex.

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4dEdited

Hello, Star. Your work has been a GIANT guidance for me over the years, especially "Dreaming the Dark". It leads me to wonder about something.

I think analyzing current events through the lens of conventional warfare is missing one giant point : Russia is a thermonuclear power. I know most people say that it's "false" and their nukes aren't useable anymore, and therefore the "collective West" shouldn't fear it. I for one think this is either wishful thinking, or a conspiracy theory, or worse : a lie.

Do you think it SHOULD matter ?

Blessed be, dear Star 🖤

Cam

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Thank you for this great analysis. This situation, is where the United States should be very embarrassed as to who they elected as leaders. They're ignorance on diplomacy and the value of treating our allies with respect is astounding.

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I made it 1/2 way through before being so disgusted I turned off the Telly. Triggers so bad I could have shot him/them. It amazes me even today how many people accept this behaviour as normal and acceptable.

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The best and truest words about that "meeting" that I have read. Thank you.

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